Gen. 45
Revenge. We think if we get revenge we've won. But no one got even.
When we get hurt we want to hurt another. But Scripture says do not
return evil for evil, but instead return good. Vengeance belongs only
in the hands of God. Joseph left it to God.
But, how do we begin to reconcile ? To take the Gospel seriously is to
take reconciliation seriously; forgiving one another. As far as it
depends on you live peacefully with all in your life. Forgive freely.
Reconcile truly. When you're reconciled truly you're free to live
freely in Christ.
Am I to forgive someone who is unrepentant ? Yes. The Bible reminds
that we are not to be inslaved to the bitterness of one who does evil
to us but intrust them to God. The working of the heart is God's
realm.
Who should forgive first? Both. Matt. 6:18. Luke 17. The offender and
the offended. The goal of forgiveness is forgiveness! Forgive freely.
When you've done the hurting you want the other person to forgive you
and to initiate it. When you're sinned against you feel intitled to
the other person initiating it immediately. Reconciliation happens
when both parties come together under God in unselfishness and
humility.
Announcement V.3- Joseph commits to relationship rather than
retaliation. ("I am Joseph"). This applies even to drive-thru servers,
people in traffic, cashiers... No revenge! Even with tone of voice or
horn!
Acceptance V.4- Brothers standing far off, one didn't get too near
to royalty.Joseph says "draw near to me". He initiated the
relationship. Don't blame yourself, God meant it for good. He didn't
say what they did was right, yet reconcialition came because a greater
love took over. Because Joseph was reconciled to God he could be
reconciled to his brothers. Grace written all over these pages. Ends
up big love fest.
Our standing before God is because Jesus says "come near". We may
not always understand His working but we can trust Him.
The very thing we are unable to provide for ourselves, justification,
God provides for us thru Christ's sacrifice.
Agenda. V.9 -"that we may go down to Canaan". He (Joseph) supplies for
his family. Reunited a family that had been fractured for many years.
He gave to them what they were unable to to do for themselves. See the
illustration again of what God has done for us!
Commit yourself to live beyond self interest. It's hard work and comes
with bumps
Commit to keep short accounts.
Commit to be at peace as far as God will allow. There are
relationships that will never be the same again even after forgiveness
has taken place but you can be at peace with them. Die to yourself.
Give the hurts of the past and present over to God.
Trust Him first, only, and extensively.
The grass is greener where one waters it.
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